November was, as ever, gloomy and my mood seemed to match that for much of the month. One bright spot is my Masters course, which is proving to be every bit as intellectually stimulating as I hoped it would be. So, the big thing was Smutathon, with some fabulous posts as ever. I am not going to highlight specific posts here. It is well worth … Continue reading November Roundup
After a month off, sorting out my life I am back. No petrol, empty shelves in the shops (ain’t Brexit fab) but lots of really interesting content to read. The prompt for the first Sinful Sunday of the month was the letter L and thee were some great pics. As a boot loving girl I couldn’t resist picking this by Vanilla Free Sex. And yes … Continue reading October Roundup
Punternet is not a pretty sight for anyone who thinks that women should be respected. Amongst other ”delights” there are reviews by punters so feel free to pass comment on a woman’s belly, saggy tits, off putting tattoos, or criticise a sex worker for not being enthusiastic enough or clock watching (mate, she’s a worker, workers do clockwatch and if you think that being fucked … Continue reading THE SERVICE
Some 40 years ago, in another life, I was discussing women’s rights and the discrimination that women suffer in many areas of life, and particularly in employment. It seemed to me even then that it was not fair that men got well paid jobs over equally well, or even better, qualified women. My friend was unconvinced. “It’s women that have the babies” he countered. That, … Continue reading Notes on Being Me
The 2nd August dawned like the first day of autumn with that melancholy end of summer light, bright but somehow not warming. We still have a complete Test series against India to come while the County Championship is on hold while artificial teams spend the main holiday month playing an artificial competition called The Hundred. Cricket designed by management consultants rather than by people who … Continue reading August Roundup
“Hotel rooms inhabit a separate moral universe.” – Tom Stoppard I have broken a mirror in a hotel room, the consequence of a hard, brutal fuck on a table. I have checked out of a hotel after two hours leaving the white bed sheets covered in chocolate after playing with a Cadbury’s Flake. I have conducted affairs in hotel rooms, I have met strangers for … Continue reading I Can Check Out Any Time But…..
So we had football and England’s fabulous performance in the European Championship, we had tennis, we had a kind of normality that really wasn’t. We also had a Government that. having spent a year and a half scaring everyone silly aboit the virus suddenly decided to scrap all restrictions and, seemingly, all sensible public heath measures, and let everyone get on with it. All this … Continue reading July Roundup
Read the previous instalment here Part Four – Ludmila Berlin – 2012 It was on her first day as a sex worker that Leah met Ludmila. She showed Leah round the Kreuzberg brothel, have her advice, seemed open and friendly, despite her faltering German. The day was quiet and by early evening she had seen only two clients. The first was an older man who was … Continue reading City of Whores -Part Four
Read the previous instalment here Part Three – Leah Chernivtsy formerly Czernowitz Ukraine – 2010 By the time their tourist party had reached Przemysl, on the sleeper train, Leah was tired, and starting to feel that sense of loneliness and depression that can overwhelm solitary travellers. Not that she was the only single in the group but, despite her six months of study at the … Continue reading City of Whores -Part Three
Toys – yes I remember them, they are kept mostly in a suitcase in my spare room. It’s been 18 months since I last had a proper play session and I have hardly looked a them in that time. Then I saw the topic for the new Kink of the week and had a rummage. This is my favourite gag. I like it because it … Continue reading When Gags Suck……
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