Finally a New Year post. I have been a bit busy you see, with postgraduate study and general post-pandemic fatigue. So I have been quiet here. I wasn’t only generally world weary but sex weary, kink weary and even football weary, But that, as they day, is a different story. Frankly if you had had to watch West Bromwich Albion for most of this season … Continue reading New Year – Getting My Mojo Back
This piece was written for Smutathon 2019 on 28th September 2019 and originally posted on smutathon.com . Please visit the site if you haven’t already. There is a lot of fabulous content. Many years ago, in a student bar, a friend asked a strange question “Why do you have to transport your body when you want to go anywhere?” We laughed. I mean, the answer … Continue reading Out of Body Experiences
I guess most of us have had the experience of meeting people in real life they originally encountered online. Many of these encounters can be big disappointments. Others can be more unusual. Some can be fantasies…….like this chance meeting with sex writer Anna Sansom. Anna came to me out of the mist. I was tired and lost, resting on a grassy knoll, and munching what … Continue reading Desire Lines
I am now at home with prosecco and not feeling the drop. I had a fun weekend and if 12 hours writing seemed daunting I did get 8 posts written and my idea, to do a series of short stories each with the title of the Small Faces album Ogdens Nut Gone Flake turned out to be a source of inspiration. I still have seven … Continue reading Of Smutathon and Prosecco
I have a friend who has recently started reading erotica. This began out of curiosity specifically that she wanted to read my published work, But she read the other stories in the books I lent her, enjoyed those and asked me to lend her some more books. I went for a coffee with her recently to talk about her experiences. Anna is in her early … Continue reading It’s Therapy But Is It Art?
It seems hard to believe that there was once a time when I didn’t know Amy who blogs as Coffee and Kink. I met her at Eroticon in March 2017 which she was attending as a nervous newbie. Just like other newbies over the years (me in 2014 as well) she took to it like a duck to water and found her place in our … Continue reading Looking Forward to Smutathon 2018
Considering that a large majority of adult human beings engage in sexual activity at various times and that many of them, possibly more than is generally realised, enjoy what might be termed alternative sexual activity, the prudery of many large internet companies may seem surprising. I guess we can’t expect any different from politicians on moral crusades but now Patreon have joined the ranks of … Continue reading Sharing our Shit
Was it really a week ago that I walked out of the Grafton pub into a horrible night feeling the famed Eroticon drop? In truth the drop only lasted until I tucked ravenously into a pasty at Euston. On the train home I felt tired but elated. Eroticon just gets better and better. I have needed a week to take it all in and reflect … Continue reading Ten Great Eroticon Moments 2017
I’ll start with a disclaimer. This is not a finished piece of analysis but rather a few things that have come into my head, a sort of thinking aloud if you like. I am very interested to hear other people’s thoughts. It happened a while ago that a blogger and sex worker who had separate blogging and working names that she was clearly determined to … Continue reading What’s In A Name?