SoSS – New Football Season Edition

There were so any great things on the net this week that it was hard to pick a small section to share with you. But here goes.

Many of the posts I liked were fun or hot or both. This was neither but a serious and thought provoking piece about the users and manipulators, the toxic sociopaths we all encounter, including rather too many in the scenes that we like to frequent. And as I read I couldn’t help thinking of our new Prime Minister.

Since I last posted for SoSS I have had a photoshoot with Exposing 40. I have blogged here but the day and how fabulous it was to spend time with someone I had only ever had brief conversations with before. It has also given me a better appreciation of her photography. And I loved this from her shoot with 19 Syllables, who I also had the pleasureof meeting at Erotion 2019

I will be posting abut toilets in the relatively near future. I have had BDSM scenes in toilets, I have had sex in toilets, most of it spontaneous, and yes, I also like my solitude, time to think, time to read, maybe even to write.  So I could relate to this.  

I have had some quite sexy conversations by text message over the years but never been the remote third party in a threesome.This post, by Exhibit A, did exactly what it said on the time. It was hot!

Gender fluidity is something I have a personal interest in and this, from Sinful Sunday,appealed to me.

I massively enjoyed this, also from Sinful Sunday and it had a certain resonance for me on Sunday.The previous night I had been at a humiliation themed play party where everyone was invited by one dominant lady to tweak the nipples of her sub who was also locked in chastity. I merely teased him, stroking his nipples, occasionally putting thumb and forefinger together to make him think I was going to give him a tweak. His response, which I am sure he had no control over, was to dribble through his gag. He was clearly finding the intense sensations quite unbearable. With this fresh in my mind, this image was really hot. I like it too because it is a capturing of motion in a staged photograph.  

And to finish up, as usual, some car porn. This one is actually linked to my photoshoot with Exposing 40. After finishing the pics we went for cocktails at a nearby pub, where we sat in the outdoor area with a view of the main road outside. To my amazement, a Mark One Mini Cooper S drew up at the traffic lights outside. I wasn’t quite quick enough to get a picture. But there are loads of clips of Coopers online. Here is one of them.


Sharing Our Shit Saturday 9th March

This week I have been reading thigs that were hot and things that were thought provoking. I will start with the latter. Here are a few reflections by Coffee and Kink on friendship and some of the difficulties that those of us who are into BDSM, or blog about sex or whatever, can have in connecting with people when our lives are necessarily compartmentalised  and we can’t be really ourselves with everyone. This is now actually less of a problem for me. For one thing boundaries have been blurred by, for example, people I originally met on the kink scene turning up (in a totally good way) in my vanilla life. There is also my age. I have decided that I really don’t give a ……. what people think of me and am quite open with most people about who I am.  But this, I understand, may not be an option for everyone.  And it is totally liberating to be with people you can talk about the important stuff with, one reason why I am so looking to Eroticon next weekend.

Which leads onto Emmeline Peaches’ reflections on International Women’s Day and being a sex positive woman and writer and on being herself and proud of it. I spent last night out drinking with a diverse group of women, straight, bi, queer, of different ages (all younger than me though!) but all amazing people I am proud to call friends. I found it totally affirming and Emmeline’s piece really spoke to me.

This week saw the start of the 2019 Euphoff  for deliberately bad erotica and I posted my entry here. I guess there will be many more equally cringe-inducing pieces to come by the end of the month and you can find links to them here as well as details of how to enter. Do have a go. It is fun and a liberating experience because if what you write is rubbish, well, that is the whole point isn’t it?

I guess I am not alone in spending ages getting ready. And, to be honest, I enjoy taking my time, sipping a gun and tonic as I ponder the key questions, what eyeshadow, what lipstick will go best with my dress,  wondering whether I will finally get my eyeliner right this time? There are, of course, other ways of getting ready as this piece of flash fiction by Jayne Renault shows.

And finally, back to chastity which is kind of where I started last week’s roundup. I enjoyed this guest post on Girl on the Net’s blog.

If you have enjoyed these as much as I have then why not follow a few links and see what else you can find and maybe spend a few hours down the rabbit hole of smut?













SoS Saturday

It’s been a while since I posted anything for this but with Eroticon just 13 sleeps away  I want to highlight some interesting posts by Eroticon friends.

First off is this by Exhibit A who is undertaking an orgasm denial challenge. This is a little bit different from the BDSM orgasm denial which I enjoy as a domme so much (particularly when combine with forced masturbation) but I am looking forward to the denouement at Eroticon. I love watching men wank.

The Other Livvy is having a fab time teasing and has also found time to post some fab pics in the Feb Photo Fest of which my favourite is this. I need to get back to wax play soon I think!

As a lady of mature years myself, I find the total amazingness and sexiness of Eye an inspiration. And here I one of many pics I have loved recently.

I know that many members of our community have battled with mental health difficulties (as I have) and found this by Tabitha Rayne a thought provoking read.

And finally I love a bit of lingerie which is why I will be paying a visit to  What Kate Did at some point during the Eroticon weekend. But I would never have thought of teaming pink panties with white cowboy boots as Posy Churchgate does here.

If you have enjoyed these posts please share them. And I will be back next week with more suggestions of things you might enjoy.











Well not quite. I am not Millicent Martin, or for that matter David Frost and I have never been punched on live television as Bernard Levin once was .  But I am on a post Eroticon blogging roll so I thought it was about time I joined in with Share Our Shit Saturday and had a look at the week that was and some of the things I read that I enjoyed.

30 Days of Orgasm Fun has been a great source of inspiration and my Touch of Velvet  vibrator has been a constant companion. It is really good and I could say loads about it but really have nothing to add to the review by Aurora Glory here.

A number of 30 Day participants have been blogging about their experiences and I really enjoyed this by Wriggly Kitty.  In my kink life edging male submissives is something I find endlessly enjoyable (and if you think it’s easier to take than, say, a hard caning think again!) . Interesting to read about it from a reversed perspective.

And now for an old post that has become topical again with prominent media feminists railing against the fictitious trans lobby. This is Brooke Magnanti on Bindel, Burchill etc in a guest post on Maggie McNeill’s blog.

I used to write a lot about sex work but don’t anymore for reasons I explained a while ago. Maggie McNeill, for those who haven’t come across her, is a US based unretired call girl (her words) blogger and campaigner. Check out her weekly news review here with links to stuff everyone needs to read about new anti-trafficking legislation in the US and the threat it poses to the safety and wellbeing of sex workers.

I like a hot fantasy as much as the next girl and really enjoyed this by Girl on the Net.

And finally for this week….I started with wanking and I am going to finish the same way before going off to play with myself. This from Coffee and Kink is hot!

I will be back next week with more shit to share. But for now I am going to leave you with a song.