Some 40 years ago, in another life, I was discussing women’s rights and the discrimination that women suffer in many areas of life, and particularly in employment. It seemed to me even then that it was not fair that men got well paid jobs over equally well, or even better, qualified women. My friend was unconvinced. “It’s women that have the babies” he countered. That, … Continue reading Notes on Being Me
“Hotel rooms inhabit a separate moral universe.” – Tom Stoppard I have broken a mirror in a hotel room, the consequence of a hard, brutal fuck on a table. I have checked out of a hotel after two hours leaving the white bed sheets covered in chocolate after playing with a Cadbury’s Flake. I have conducted affairs in hotel rooms, I have met strangers for … Continue reading I Can Check Out Any Time But…..
Read the previous instalment here Part Four – Ludmila Berlin – 2012 It was on her first day as a sex worker that Leah met Ludmila. She showed Leah round the Kreuzberg brothel, have her advice, seemed open and friendly, despite her faltering German. The day was quiet and by early evening she had seen only two clients. The first was an older man who was … Continue reading City of Whores -Part Four
I have stories in the following anthologies: Boys in Bed an XCite Books anthology of gay stories published in 2013 which I am not sure is still in print. I will post a link here if I find it. I also have a number of stories on the Smutathon website. And a story on FrolicMe here A series of stories on the D/S adventures of … Continue reading Read More by Eve
And what have you done? Well, not much actually. 2020 has been a write off in so many respects. No kink and not much sex either which may be a good thing because I have been a very well behaved girl for Santa.Instead I have written a lot and I am sure that on the 25th I will be writing again because writing has replaced … Continue reading So This is Christmas
“Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow” Cherise Sinclair When I was a boy I wanted to be an amoeba. I liked the idea of being a creature that didn’t have to bother with sex. I adored Debbie Harry, I masturbated till I was sore, I took my mother’s magazines to bed, I picked a model from the fashion pages and … Continue reading Anita
“That” said Fiona Howe, “is the most misogynistic thing I have heard in a long long time. Do you actually know how old I am?” I shuffled my feet in embarrassment and struggled for an answer. “Well I thought erm maybe…” “I am 72. Is that a problem for you?” “Well no” “Or maybe it is. You were thinking about how much older I am … Continue reading Lessons in Love
If I ordered you to fuck me would you? Would your tongue be as eager to my clit as to my boot? Would the fingers of a freshly tawsed hand mine the pleasures of my cunt? You say that to fuck is to top , that you can’t, but know that I will be on top, riding you, my nails spurs on your nipples, … Continue reading If I Ordered You to Fuck Me
Debbie Archer was my first big crush. I was 11 and she was 14. I wasn’t her only admirer. There was something about her, poise. maturity, the impression (looking back nearly 50 years on) that when most of her contemporaries were still girls, she was well on the way to becoming a woman. And I didn’t just admire her from a distance. She played cello … Continue reading Notes on Being a Slag
This is the 400th Wicked Wednesday and Marie has asked me to take part via a tweet so it would be wrong not to. So I have a few reflections on the last 8 years of my life and how the jigsaw fell into place, how the pieces of sex, kink and vintage fashion came together in unexpected ways. Sexual intercourse was discovered in 1963 … Continue reading Last Piece In The Jigsaw
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