He told me had once been a dom. I already knew that and knew he hadn’t been the kind. Loving dom my friend Anna had needed. He had rather been a domineering arsehole, on a power kick. But, when I first met him, I sensed that, behind his cartoon like dom persona, lurked submissiveness, a submissiveness that he was trying so hard to deny. We … Continue reading SWITCHING WITH THE SISSY
I didn’t fall for her because she was beautiful but rather because she wasn’t. I was hers the moment I saw her, on an October day twenty years ago. I was wondering through the Moravian Gallery, on my final day in the city. Brno is actually a pleasant city, once you have penetrated the dystopian outer ring of Communist era panelaky, and like peeling off … Continue reading Ars Amandi
Read the previous instalment here Part Four – Ludmila Berlin – 2012 It was on her first day as a sex worker that Leah met Ludmila. She showed Leah round the Kreuzberg brothel, have her advice, seemed open and friendly, despite her faltering German. The day was quiet and by early evening she had seen only two clients. The first was an older man who was … Continue reading City of Whores -Part Four
He kneels in worship Silent, shaking, knowing he Will soon taste the whip 2. Fastened to the cross, Face drawn tight, concentration The hiss, crack, the cry 3. Tears of joy, stripes Tiger his back, as He kneels in worship Continue reading A Scene in 3 Haiku
If I ordered you to fuck me would you? Would your tongue be as eager to my clit as to my boot? Would the fingers of a freshly tawsed hand mine the pleasures of my cunt? You say that to fuck is to top , that you can’t, but know that I will be on top, riding you, my nails spurs on your nipples, … Continue reading If I Ordered You to Fuck Me
For three weeks I have been stuck at home on my own. This means no sex. Well OK there is solo sex but I really lost my mojo for that when lockdown was announced. My go to prison wife fantasy wasn’t working for me. All I could think of was the reality of prison life now, during the crisis, the way in which the virus … Continue reading A Lockdown Visit
It was just 13 days ago that I last had a curry at my favourite Indian restaurant in Birmingham but that seems an age ago as I write. It could many months before I go here again. And I will miss the Chicken Rezala as much as I will miss my own personal stash of Wolf Blass Chardonnay, not on the wine list but kept … Continue reading Nights at the Taj
I was feeling the drop even before I boarded my train. I watched the crowds thronging around Temple Meads station and reflected that I was no longer in the bubble of lovely sex-positive and open minded people where I had spent the last two days. Here were people who would not understand, not share my passions, my longings. I was sad even on this sunny … Continue reading Eroticon 2014 – a fantasy
Gillian had been disappointed with her first clients since she had started work as a professional sub. The men who had claimed to be turned on by the idea of dominating women had turned out to be, well, useless, dominant neither in demeanour nor in behaviour. As for the CP, the cruel canings she enjoyed so much, well, it was best not to mention that. … Continue reading You Naughty Girl!
Never let it be said that the BDSM scene is not tolerant and broad-minded. It attracts such interesting people. Mistress Helga appreciated her life in a multi-cultural society and was pleased to have chambers on the edge of Manchester’s most famous Asian area. She was fascinated too by the variety of men, occasionally women, who came to serve her. She particularly enjoyed the transformation she … Continue reading Going for a Curry
Sex Work and Human Rights
Not your fluffy feminism
60 something nomadic traveller
The Sex Industry Blog - For Media Enquiries please call us on 020 7175 0180 or email dearharlot@gmail.com
26 years of previously repressed melodrama
celebrating women and exploring sexuality
A Kiss is Just a Kiss -
Madam Becky Adams. Award Winning Author & Keynote Speaker 'The Art of Seductive Customer Servicing.' - Profitable liaisons with the customer sub-conscious.
Eve's Temptations 