In the month that was to have been dominated by Eroticon, and for which I spent quite a bit of time preparing, I still managed to find time for reading and here is a selection of things that I particularly enjoyed. Following the various memes gives me the opportunity to discover new blogs and I am so pleased to have discovered The Artful Muse via … Continue reading SoSS – March
It is nearly that time again – sexy Christmas when I learn a lot, drink too much, and get to hang out with some of the most amazing, talented and sexy people I know. As usual, Molly has invited us to do a virtual Meet and Greet. Here is mine: NAME (and Twitter if you have one) Eve Ray and I tweet at @EveRay1 Tell … Continue reading Eroticon 2020 – Meet and Greet
So 2020, I was really not looking forward to you for reasons most of my readers will be aware of. As we approach Brexit day I can’t help reflecting that Brexit is not really about the actual institution of the European Union but rather about using an imagined EU as a focus for a wide variety of grievances, with the aim of enabling a populist, … Continue reading SoSS – Brexit Edition
This is the 400th Wicked Wednesday and Marie has asked me to take part via a tweet so it would be wrong not to. So I have a few reflections on the last 8 years of my life and how the jigsaw fell into place, how the pieces of sex, kink and vintage fashion came together in unexpected ways. Sexual intercourse was discovered in 1963 … Continue reading Last Piece In The Jigsaw
A week ago, a grey plastic package arrived in the post. I ripped it open to find my first subscriber copy of Diva magazine. I suppose it is a sad reflection of our times that it is necessary for the magazine to be sent out in such packaging, in a way that my copies of Private Eye are not. But shame and stigma are still … Continue reading DIVA Days
sang Sailor in their 1976 hit. I have never really liked the song but it has that annoying habit some songs do of burrowing their way into your brain and refusing to leave. Another thing is that drinking champagne is something I really only do with girlfriends and is not linked, for me at least, to romance and sex. So it seemed right to arrange … Continue reading Let’s Get Together The Two of Us over a Glass Of Champagne
It is Saturday 19th October as I write. I am listening anxiously for news of the votes in Parliament on you know what. But there is good news, one part of which I will turn to later. For bow I ma very happy that we stuffed the Aussies in the rugby this morning. Here are some things that I have enjoyed reading over the last couple … Continue reading SoSS – October
This piece was written for Smutathon 2019 on 28th September 2019 and originally posted on smutathon.com . Please visit the site if you haven’t already. There is a lot of fabulous content. Many years ago, in a student bar, a friend asked a strange question “Why do you have to transport your body when you want to go anywhere?” We laughed. I mean, the answer … Continue reading Out of Body Experiences
I suppose I am not much like Erica Jong’s heroine and I doubt I will be any more successful in finding the zipless fuck than she was. Nonetheless reading Fear of Flying some years ago coincided with a new relationship and some amazing sex and got me thinking in a new way about female sexuality. I will correct that. It got me thinking about female … Continue reading In Search of the Zipless Fuck…..Or Not
The wonderful Coffee and Kink attended her first Eroticon as recently as 2017. This seems hard to believe as she is such a fixture on the sex blogging scene. It was her idea to hold the first sex blogging marathon, which was christened Smutathon, later that year. It was on 2nd July 2017 that a few of us made ourselves comfortable in the London home … Continue reading It’s Smutathon Time Again!
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